LOVE LIES

RELATIONSHIP TOXICITY IN CAMPUS


It starts well with an unhappy unpredictable end staring. You knew not that this would happen before indulging yourself in it. Right? Love is a lively description of live, and in this case campus life. The main goal here is to study but could you squeeze some space for love? In as much as campus is a temporary place of stay, one scoops a lot of lifetime lessons, ideas and even trauma depending on how wounded you may feel at the end of it all.

While at it( campus life) majority of people make space for love. I mean they fix it a cup of tea and rest with it for a while before it decides to make a turn, if it decides to anyway.
Everyone craves for love and affection because who wouldn't want to be around someone
John for instance invested in this girl (Ann). Love at first sight I'd say. But time exposed Ann to great men in campus ( with money, well built bodies) you know what I mean. But why did John decide to stay back and hold onto it
1. Fear of being jilted by his ' gang' 
2. He was not denied at times (sex)
3. He thought that Ann would change her mind with time( probably or probably not)

You wouldn't convince him that all this was a waste of time and that's toxicity. He'd been away for a while but he's back.
Toxic relationships in campus contaminates one's academic skills and changes their view of life. If you'd ask John.
Until one tells their own story, you wouldn't realise how much trauma campus students experience in the name of love.
Sometimes as a victim, you need a revival as assurance that you càn withstand life outside the door of love. Students speak of the complexities they face.

Here bring your wounded hearts, tell your anguish because I know everyone wouldn't understand better.
Let's always hold space for our people at campus, it's therapeutic


Comments

  1. why are you this talented?!😩🔥👏❤✨

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  2. True...campus is full of life lessons 👌

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  3. Students ain't young or old for love. But before before finding a happy student in love know the struggles behind that

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  4. I believe by now every student understands campus love is 99% temporary, being cautious and less expectant helps, love is a good thing but being blinded by it it's, students should limit there hearts on love matters, most students 'love' because of sex but sex doesn't really depend on love. let's protect our hearts

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  5. A smiley face and inner loud screams of pain

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  6. Seems love was for the chosen few😔for it hurts💯😪

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  7. Campus a place where love can never survive

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  9. Loving wrong person is a common thing at the campus; it's painful💔 and a problem without solution💔💔let's take care of our loved ones❤

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  10. Dee❤️ you are such a sweet writer, this is splendid
    The campus love life is just an added Unit to students' curriculum
    If you find your real soulmate, its sweet, most successful marriages began in campus
    But if you fall for looks, monetary value and to please mbogi..... Then utakula heartbreak ushangae

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  11. Campus students should be very considerate

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  12. Well written and touching,,,,talks of the truth which many may not need to hear but they need to exercise in the name of "they are grown ups."

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  13. Campus love has constituted to 70 percent of marriage after campus, love is a beautiful thing and true love will always balance well with your studies. The issue is whom to trust with your love?

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  14. Toxicity on another level in campus

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  15. Very educative.
    Sad part is that Love will never be 💯% worth it. We take risks to fall in love with total strangers and love them even more than we love ourselves.

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  16. Still a fail to understand what many people think love is, a brief reasoning with my mind i came up with a weak definition of real love, it's just not cool when you love someone to much.

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  17. Love hurts 😑congrats kamamii😍

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  18. Campus love is a scum,resulting to suicide.congratulation my niece ❤️

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  19. Eeish..its so touching😙,, anyway keep on writing Dee,can inspire souls out there💯

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